The Elderly, dealing with them, your relatives and others

I hinted at this in an earlier response to a post by Pendragon, who told a story about his grandfather, but like most middle-aged people, I am now beginning to deal with elderly parents. Thank god they're alive and healthy, at 80, and are absolutely in their right minds, but nonetheless, the realities of being that age are starting to show, and the relationship between them and their offspring, as

The Elderly, dealing with them, your relatives and others